Monday, August 31, 2009

In the end, we are all the same

Have had separate incidental conversations with different people on their jobs.. across various industries. Interestingly, I see various insights that are different and yet the same.
 
A is tired of her cushy job as it's the same routine motion month after month, year after year.
B hates her boss and the politics.
C just got transferred to a function that's not in line with her career aspirations.
D got false hope of a possible job transfer.
E feels underaccomplished.
F likes to work as opposed to being a housewife so life's about herself and not just for for others.
G is working for someone who don't share the same ideals and values.
H feels that her boss is really biased and doesn't dare to speak up.
 
Across these conversations, seems that most people don't like their jobs, be it they show it or not. Once heard another wise man say - you should stand up for your rights, make suggestions to change the world/ workspace, influence people...  so you are not merely a victim of the circumstances.
 
Having said that, when is enough enough?
 
Why is it that most people rather stay in jobs they dislike rather than pursue their dreams ? Is it just the opportunity cost of stable salary or is it the fear to venture out into the unknown in the hope of seeking fulfilment ? Or perhaps it's the fear that the dreams we go for may not be the right dreams in the first place? But then again, what is right? The one you succeed but feel little joy or the one that you fail but experience all of life's ups, downs and bewilderment.
 
 

Sunday, August 09, 2009

Boat Trip

Day started spendidly to clear skies versus the rains that were intially feared. Was a wonder my bio clock still worked after the late night out with Chun & Sean at Backstage - the jazz bar. Fantastic rendition of jazz pieces including Gao Shan Qing, Qing Ren De Yan Lei and Yue Liang Dai Biao Wo De Xin. And was interesting use of harmonica instead of saxophone in my humble opinion. And the lobster pasta in spicy tomato sauce was amazing too! This place definitely deserves an encore.
 
Anyways .. the yacht trip was fun and for a very long time, especially in HK, I have not seen so much skin in 1 afternoon - the designer bikinis galore. We went wakeboarding & for some reason couldn't stand up that quickly & for very long. However, age couldn't be an excuse as the driver of speedboat can still do 360 degree flips in air at age of 46, and look like a 38.
 
Anw, through the wakeboarding, one thing i learnt was that if you don't want to fall flat on your stomach/back versus sinking gracefully..you gotta LET GO. Ain't it like life?
 
The perfect end to the very hot day - hotpot.
 
The perfect end to the night - Moulin Rouge .. the ever enchanting musical that still charms after 8 long years.

Monday, August 03, 2009

Movies I have watched

Think I will start a regular update on movies I have watched as it's really extensive in my humble opinion....And a rating system..
5 stars for MUST WATCH
1 star for MUST NOT WASTE MONEY 
 
In order of recency ...
 
1. Overheard 窃听风云
Rating: 5
Thrilling. Exciting watch but one will still leave theatre affected.
Moral of story: Crime doesn't pay.
 
2. Harry Potter  
Rating: 2
Boring. Almost fell asleep. No climax.
Moral of story: Not sure.... sequel sucks?
Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (2009)
 
3. Murderer
Rating: 5
Thrilling with good twists. Pretty depressing so don't watch it on a day you feel down. Gruesome so don't watch after a heavy meal.
Moral of story: Try to stay sane no matter what.
 
4.Sunshine Cleaning 
Rating: 4 
Interesting plot but not action packed. Good for lazy afternoon or plane ride.
Moral of story: Don't use candles.